In the case of cyber bullying or stalkering. You have two options. Delete or report. Deleting your page will save you from negativity because then you can't see it. You don't need your Facebook, twitter, Instagram that bad. But it you feel you don't want to delete your stuff then angel... Make a new page, Block them, report as spam, use the private setting, don't add any strangers. You can make your page as private as you want and need it to be.
You can also report them, if the bullying/stalking continues. Gathering as much information and take it to your local police station. Cyber stalking happens to be a crime. If a bully is always harassing you online and stalking your page every second and making threats, you can take action.
If a person has nude pictures of you and decide they want to post it online. That is also a very serious crime. You don't have to just deal with it because once on the Internet, it can be on there forever. So take action and show people its not ok to do that. You don't deserve for that to happen to you. And if you never did send a person a nude picture, please don't.
Any type of bullying is unacceptable, you don't have to deal with it. You are amazing the way you are.
Follow the wings(inner strength)
Sunday, October 21, 2012
Monday, October 15, 2012
Teens: Bullying
First off know this, you are not the cause for being bullied. You are getting bullied because you are an easy target. Either you are quiet, shy, less fortunate, too nice, too smart, or a thousand other stupid reasons. Anything can make a person a target for someone to pick on... And none is your fault.
Teens bully other teens for two reasons. One, they are insecure about themselves or their lives, so they pick on someone else to make themselves feel better. Two, because they can.
A teen going through serious problems sometimes don't have someone to talk to or someone to listen. So that anger builds, causing it to be taken out on another. Not giving them an excuse but sometimes bully's are the loneliest & depressed people. If you see yourself as inferior to another person, they will take full advantage of what you think. If a bully feel like he can get away with bullying you... Unfortunately they will.
Know this beautiful teen, its not ok.... you do not deserve to be bullied in anyway. Nothing makes it okay to have to deal with it. You may feel scared or alone but you are not. So many people have gone through it. & it will not last forever, trust me. You always have choices... You can always report it to an adult or/& take self defense classes... Not including so many other options. A bully doesn't deserve your silence so don't protect them.
You deserve to have an happy teen experience. Don't let anyone take that away. You are stronger than you think. An insecure bully will never be happy. & know what goes around comes around... So that bully has bad karma coming his/her way. As a teen, your job is to be happy and to have fun. Remember, it's not your fault... It never will be your fault. Don't let another person take away your happiness, your happiness is your responsibility. Don't blame yourself ever and silence isn't your only option. You are perfect as you are.
Follow the wings (inner strength)
Teens bully other teens for two reasons. One, they are insecure about themselves or their lives, so they pick on someone else to make themselves feel better. Two, because they can.
A teen going through serious problems sometimes don't have someone to talk to or someone to listen. So that anger builds, causing it to be taken out on another. Not giving them an excuse but sometimes bully's are the loneliest & depressed people. If you see yourself as inferior to another person, they will take full advantage of what you think. If a bully feel like he can get away with bullying you... Unfortunately they will.
Know this beautiful teen, its not ok.... you do not deserve to be bullied in anyway. Nothing makes it okay to have to deal with it. You may feel scared or alone but you are not. So many people have gone through it. & it will not last forever, trust me. You always have choices... You can always report it to an adult or/& take self defense classes... Not including so many other options. A bully doesn't deserve your silence so don't protect them.
You deserve to have an happy teen experience. Don't let anyone take that away. You are stronger than you think. An insecure bully will never be happy. & know what goes around comes around... So that bully has bad karma coming his/her way. As a teen, your job is to be happy and to have fun. Remember, it's not your fault... It never will be your fault. Don't let another person take away your happiness, your happiness is your responsibility. Don't blame yourself ever and silence isn't your only option. You are perfect as you are.
Follow the wings (inner strength)
Sunday, October 14, 2012
Teen Girl: You are beautiful
If no one told you today. If no one ever told you in your life. I want to be the first to say You Are Beautiful! What makes you beautiful? Your uniqueness, your heart, your individuality, your physical appearance, your light that shines within you. You are beautiful because there is no one like you in the world. You are one of a kind, no one will be like you ever.
You may feel unloved sometimes. People may disappoint you sometimes. People may be mean to you sometimes or all the time. But remember, what you feel today will pass... What others feel about you will pass too. Nothing stay the same forever. Life is a constant change.
The first step in feeling the beauty that you are... Is to start loving yourself. Love yourself unconditionally. Love what you consider flaws because they make you...you. Love all of you every single day. It's only when you love yourself the right way, will you also attract people that love you the way you deserve to be loved. People don't make you beautiful, only you have the power to make yourself beautiful to others. Beauty truly is skin deep. If your inner beauty is shining then your outer beauty will brighten up the world.
No matter how many people tell you that you are not beautiful. What you believe is your reality. So believe in your beauty because I do. You are beautiful and the sooner you appreciate your beauty, others will also.
Follow the wings (inner beauty)
You may feel unloved sometimes. People may disappoint you sometimes. People may be mean to you sometimes or all the time. But remember, what you feel today will pass... What others feel about you will pass too. Nothing stay the same forever. Life is a constant change.
The first step in feeling the beauty that you are... Is to start loving yourself. Love yourself unconditionally. Love what you consider flaws because they make you...you. Love all of you every single day. It's only when you love yourself the right way, will you also attract people that love you the way you deserve to be loved. People don't make you beautiful, only you have the power to make yourself beautiful to others. Beauty truly is skin deep. If your inner beauty is shining then your outer beauty will brighten up the world.
No matter how many people tell you that you are not beautiful. What you believe is your reality. So believe in your beauty because I do. You are beautiful and the sooner you appreciate your beauty, others will also.
Follow the wings (inner beauty)
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