First off know this, you are not the cause for being bullied. You are getting bullied because you are an easy target. Either you are quiet, shy, less fortunate, too nice, too smart, or a thousand other stupid reasons. Anything can make a person a target for someone to pick on... And none is your fault.
Teens bully other teens for two reasons. One, they are insecure about themselves or their lives, so they pick on someone else to make themselves feel better. Two, because they can.
A teen going through serious problems sometimes don't have someone to talk to or someone to listen. So that anger builds, causing it to be taken out on another. Not giving them an excuse but sometimes bully's are the loneliest & depressed people. If you see yourself as inferior to another person, they will take full advantage of what you think. If a bully feel like he can get away with bullying you... Unfortunately they will.
Know this beautiful teen, its not ok.... you do not deserve to be bullied in anyway. Nothing makes it okay to have to deal with it. You may feel scared or alone but you are not. So many people have gone through it. & it will not last forever, trust me. You always have choices... You can always report it to an adult or/& take self defense classes... Not including so many other options. A bully doesn't deserve your silence so don't protect them.
You deserve to have an happy teen experience. Don't let anyone take that away. You are stronger than you think. An insecure bully will never be happy. & know what goes around comes around... So that bully has bad karma coming his/her way. As a teen, your job is to be happy and to have fun. Remember, it's not your fault... It never will be your fault. Don't let another person take away your happiness, your happiness is your responsibility. Don't blame yourself ever and silence isn't your only option. You are perfect as you are.
Follow the wings (inner strength)
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